Who Cares?
Caring-for-Life work is the central metaphor
for all care. It contains all other elements of care, including compassion,
mental work and physical work. Just as water is the same whether it is in the
form of a drop or an ocean, so everything done in the name of care can be found
in the domestic work traditionally performed by women in the home without
compensation. It can also be found in the work of the peasant farmer. It is for
this reason that I use the term care to describe this work.
Domestic Workers Rights are Human Rights |
Women’s domestic work, care is taken for granted. It is the
background and as a result has been given little thought and much of it remains
out of awareness even to the women who do it. Embedded in women’s culture, it
has a way of joining all women because it is done by women everywhere.
Some Care is done by all women. It is passed on from
mother to daughter, it is done differently depending up the daughters place in
the family. First born daughters have more responsibility for caring for
younger brothers and sisters, helping mothers, and as a result learn to assume
responsibility for care. First born daughters approach care with a greater sense of
responsibility and desire for control than other daughters. When the first born
is unavailable then the work falls to the second daughter. In general care work never falls to the sons.